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9:00am -
10:00am - let the big kids out to play in the backyard
10:15am - fold diaper laundry and put it away. Put another load of clothes in the washer.
10:30am - Change Phoebe's diaper
10:35am- Unload dishwasher and reload it (while Hazel screams in the background.) And make Phoebe another sippy cup.
10:45am - Change Hazel's diaper and feed her.
11:00am - Start writing this post (with one hand while holding a fussy baby.)
11:15am - Change Phoebe's diaper (again)
11:20am - Clean kitchen/dining room
11:30am - Hold screaming baby while the other kids play Legos. Hazel falls asleep and I spend the next 40 minutes trying not to move while she naps on me. It's really not as relaxing as it might sound.
12:10pm - Change Hazel and Phoebe's diapers
12:12pm - Make the kids a snack
12:15pm - Put the laundry into the dryer
12:20pm - Feed Hazel
12:30pm - surf the internet for 20 minutes, while using my foot to bounce Hazel in the bouncy seat and keep her happy.
12:50pm - Help the kids clean up Legos
12:55pm - Change Phoebe and Hazel's diapers
1:00pm - Make the kids lunch
1:05pm - Feed Hazel
1:15pm - Change Phoebe's poopy diaper, spray it off and put her down for a nap
1:30pm - Eat lunch
2:00pm - Take shower
2:20pm - Get kids ready to go to doctor (change Phoebe and Hazel, do Bella's hair etc.)
2:45-3:15pm - My 6 week post partum check-up (with kids in tow.)
3:30pm - drop off prescription at Wal-Greens
3:35-4:00pm - Take the kids to McDonald's for ice cream and to play (their reward for being so good at the doctors office) Feed Hazel while there.
4:15pm - Trip to Target
5:15pm - Take Bella to get her hair cut
6:00pm - Get home and give John a haircut
6:15pm - Change Phoebe and Hazel's diapers
6:20pm - Feed Hazel
6:30-7:00pm - Clean the garage and hang out in the backyard with the kids while Corey mows the grass
7:00pm - Change Hazel's diaper
7:03pm - Put the big kids in the tub
7:05pm - Put load of diapers in the washer and fold and put away clothes from the dryer while the kids take a bath.
8:00pm - Feed Hazel while Corey makes the kids dinner.
8:30pm - Change Phoebe's diaper, put her in pajamas and put the 3 kids to bed
8:40pm - Clean up kitchen, dining room and livingroom
Now it's 8:45pm and I'm going to eat dinner myself and watch Survivor. My true leisure time. Then I'll change Hazel's diaper again, get her ready for bed, feed her and go to sleep. And do it all again tomorrow.
I love my life and wouldn't trade it for anything.